I love it when a sub, who may have been thinking and fantasizing about BDSM for a long time, finally plucks up the courage to walk through the door at the House du Croix and in doing so, begins his or her own journey through the world of BDSM with a real time session. This first experience is SO important. It can be the difference between beginning a lifetime of kinky adventures or being put off for life. It is quite a responsibility for me.
If you are new to kink or just thinking that you might want to try, don’t let your fears hold you back. It is important though, that you find the right Mistress. A good Mistress will be very aware of the fact that you are new, and for that reason I have the philosophy that it is always better to start slowly and work up towards limits rather than going in full pelt from the beginning. After all, and speaking honestly, it is just as important for me as it is for you, that you enjoy your session and want to come back. It can take a little while before you discover your limits and what you enjoy/don’t enjoy, this is why I refer to BDSM as “a journey”.
I want you to enjoy your session and I want that session to be the beginning of something special for you. That does not mean I will not push you, but it is about being pushed in the right areas and to the right extent. A very fine line indeed, but one that a skillful Dominant will be able to walk. I have seen many nervous newbies arrive for a session and afterwards, leave with a big smile on their face. This is such a great thrill for me and I find it very rewarding. So come to Meena and be My little bitch! Kink is fun and you don’t want to miss out on THAT kind of fun, right? 😉
Until next time,